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Fashionable Finds for Boys

If you could see me now, I”m slapping myself on the forehead because of another memory lapse.  With barely a few winks before Christmas day, it just dawned on me that I still don’t have a present for one of my nephews.  How could that have slipped my mind!  Thankfully, the internet has a plethora of gift options for some last minute, buzzer-beating shopping.

I consider myself lucky for stumbling upon lucasfrank.com.  I could hardly contain my excitement as I browsed through their collection of boys’ clothes.  Their line ranges from tees to polos to hoodies.  Everything a boy needs to look and feel like a member of a pop boy band is here.

I’ve got my eye on this hoodie which I’m thinking of getting for my nephew:

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And on warmer days, this tee would be perfect as he heads out to the park for a stroll:

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I love how this rugby shirt would make him look like a stunner as he asks his crush out for some ice cream:

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They do have other items on sale, so I don’t think my shopping ends here. Better a forgetful aunt than a scrooge, right?

Please Pass the Tissues: Kids and the Common Cold

The common cold is like a bad birthday gift that keeps on giving! And back-to-school time means colds are not far behind. But there are ways to prevent the spread of cold germs, and teaching your kids to practice good hygiene can go a long way to keeping them healthy, especially as flu season arrives. Recognizing the symptoms early, good hand washing and preventing the spread of germs are all ways to keep your entire family healthy when the common cold comes calling.

Cold Symptoms

The common cold usually begins about one to three days after a child or an adult is exposed to a cold virus. According to the Mayo Clinic, signs and symptoms of a common cold can include the following:

  • Runny or stuffy nose
  • Itchy or sore throat
  • Cough
  • Congestion
  • Slight body aches or a mild headache
  • Sneezing
  • Watery eyes
  • Low-grade fever
  • Mild fatigue

The discharge from your child’s nose may become thicker and greener in color as the cold runs its course. The biggest difference between a cold and other types of illness is that it does not usually cause a high fever or significant fatigue. Children do not need to see their pediatrician for a cold unless they are experiencing ear pain, high fevers or other symptoms. The Mayo Clinic recommends the following guidelines for determining if your child needs to see a doctor:

  • Fever of 100.4 F (38 C) in newborns up to 12 weeks
  • Fever that rises repeatedly above 104 F (40 C) in a child of any age
  • Signs of dehydration, such as urinating less often than usual
  • Not drinking adequate fluids
  • Fever that lasts more than 24 hours in a child younger than 2
  • Fever that lasts more than three days in a child older than 2
  • Vomiting or abdominal pain
  • Unusual sleepiness
  • Severe headache
  • Stiff neck
  • Difficulty breathing
  • Persistent crying
  • Ear pain
  • Persistent cough

Cold Remedies

Colds are not treated with antibiotics, and using antibiotics too frequently or for the wrong reasons can increase the number of drug resistant germs. Even though you want your child to get better quickly, the common cold just has to run its course. But there are things you can do to make your child more comfortable while her immune system does its job. Use acetaminophen and ibuprofen according to package directions and based on your child’s weight and age for general discomfort and low-grade fevers. Never give aspirin to a child under the age of 12; and teens under the age of 19 should not take aspirin or aspirin-containing products for viral illnesses as it increases their risk of developing Reye syndrome.

The Kidshealth website recommends the following to ease the symptoms of the common cold in children:

  • Saline nasal sprays or drops help relieve nasal congestion
  • Cool mist humidifier to moisturize the air
  • Petroleum jelly under the nose to protect and soothe the skin
  • Cough drops or hard candy can relieve sore throat pain
  • Warm baths or steamy showers to help with chest congestion

Cold symptoms typically last for about a week and your child is contagious for the first three days she has symptoms. During this time it is important to keep your child at home as much as possible and to make sure she gets plenty of rest. This will help your child feel better sooner and recover completely in a timely way.

Cold Prevention

According to the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, the best way to prevent the spread of the common cold is by thorough hand washing. Cold viruses live on your hands and washing them thoroughly and often and keeping them away from the eyes and nose can prevent the spread of infection. Cold viruses can live for up to three hours on your skin and on the surfaces in your home and school. Disinfecting telephone key pads, computer keyboards, stair railings and door knobs with products that kill viruses can help prevent the spread of the common cold at home. Teaching kids to sneeze into their sleeve when a tissue is not available, wash their hands after using tissues, and flushing tissues instead of throwing them into a trashcan can also cut down on the spread of cold germs.

Preventing every cold virus from entering your home is impossible. Teaching your children how to keep germs from spreading can keep everyone healthier during cold and flu season.

 

Sandy Mitchell lives in the heart of Ohio’s wine country, where she’s a homeowner, landlord, and organic gardener. She is also a regular contributor to the Ross Feller Casey, LLP blog, where shares her advice on family safety and health issues.

 

Tips for Making Your Baby’s Room as Safe as Possible

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Your baby is your top priority after it is born. You need to be willing to do anything and everything to keep it safe. This means that you have to take steps to make the baby’s room as safe as possible. What are some steps that you can take to achieve this goal?

Put Thick Carpets on the Floor

There is a chance that you baby could fall or otherwise hurt itself on a hardwood floor. Considering that a baby’s head is a fragile as a glass bowl, the baby could seriously hurt itself from such a fall. By putting carpet in the room, the risk of your newborn child getting hurt is significantly reduced.

Keep a Baby Monitor in the Room

A baby monitor allows you to keep tabs on your baby when you are not in the room. If your child starts to cry or make other sounds of distress, you can be there in an instant to make sure that your baby is OK. In the event that something is wrong with your baby, you will know right away. That can be the difference between your child living and dying if it were choking on something or being attacked by a venomous bug.

Cover Any Electrical Outlets Inside or Outside the Room

Babies don’t know that playing with electrical outlets can be dangerous. As a parent, you have to be aware that a baby is going to be curious about everything that it comes into contact with. Therefore, it is possible that you child will try to stick his or her fingers into an electrical socket or try to put its mouth on it. That could result in serious injury or death to your child.

Make Sure There is a Barrier Around the Crib

Babies like to move around as much as possible. While your newborn may not be able to stand up and get out of the crib, and older baby may be capable of climbing over any barrier put in front of him or her. A good rule of thumb is to put a wall around the crib that goes as far to the ceiling as possible. This avoids the possibility that your child will fall out of the crib and get hurt. When your child gets a little older, it may be appropriate for parents to consider beds like those sold by Bunkers Adelaide for their kid.

Babies are fragile creatures who can easily get hurt. If you are a parent, you need to take steps before the baby arrives at home to ensure that there is nothing that your child can do to hurt him or herself. While it may seem like a pain to take such precautions, it will be well worth it in the long run.

Why It’s Important for Children to Play by Themselves

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Whoever started the whole “a priest, a Jew and a rabbi” genre of jokes must be given credit.  These jokes are simply timeless and never fail to crack people up.  But why didn’t the priest, or rabbi, or Jew go to the bar alone?  Was there any problem with that?  Were they just so dependent on each other that they couldn’t bear going out by themselves?

This is why we should allow kids to play solo.  The ability to entertain oneself is a lifelong skill which, when acquired early on, proves to be beneficial not only to the kid, but to the people around him as well.

When a child learns to keep himself amused without help from his parents or siblings, he is more likely to grow up doing things independently.  You can expect him to do his homework with minimal supervision, and he’ll be more capable of solving other problems on his own.  The kid realizes that one goes through life mostly by trial and error, without having to fearfully cling to Mommy’s skirt.

If you see your little one happily playing with her dolls, for instance, just leave her be.  Don’t break her concentration and ruin her train of thought.  Through this type of play, she lets her creativity flow without any outside interference.

My daughter sometimes complains to me that she’s bored, but I don’t take responsibility for that.  Whenever that “boredom” neon light starts to flicker over her head, I point her in the direction of her dolls, jigsaw puzzles, crayons and art materials.  I show her that there’s lots of stuff for her to do, that she simply has to choose from the gamut of activities at her disposal.  I’ve also come up with a checklist of options for her- that includes folding the laundry.  So, she gets to help around the house and be entertained at the same time.

It’s not about ignoring your kid.  It’s about giving him room to be absorbed in a task, and having him revel in his accomplishment.  Stay in the background and keep a watchful eye, just so you know that he’s not about to set the house on fire or anything.

 

The Advantages of Seeing a Children’s Dentist

Have you ever looked at the signs of dental offices and seen some that say “pediatric dentist”? Do you know what the difference is between a children’s dentist in Fresno and a general dentist? Many people do not know what sets apart a children’s dentist from a general dentist, but there are many advantages with going to a pediatric dentist. Read on to find out why many people choose to go with a pediatric dentist for their kids.

Extra Training

A pediatric dentist goes to medical school just like a general dentist, but after that schooling, a pediatric dentist will go to two extra years of schooling to get training to work with children. They understand more about dental issues that deal specifically with children such as monitoring baby teeth and teaching proper tooth hygiene. Some of their treatments include infant oral exams, preventative dental care, tooth defect care, and dental care for special needs children.

Smaller Equipment

It should come as no surprise that children are smaller, so it makes sense that children would also need smaller equipment. A pediatric dentist has smaller bite wings for x-rays. There are smaller chairs for kids to sit in. Kids can enjoy smaller dental instruments that fit in their mouths easier. It makes the dental experience easier for kids. Dentists can also treat children easier with these smaller instruments.

Love of Kids

One of the main differences with pediatric dentists is their love of kids. If they didn’t love kids, why would a pediatric dentist go to two extra years of school just so they can work with children? In a pediatric dentist’s office there are more toys, the office is more kid-friendly, and the staff is used to working with children. Most kids actually look forward to going to the dentist when the office is a fun place to be.

If you have young children, children with disabilities, or even adolescents, a children’s dentist in Fresno can provide dental care that will help your child to love the dentist. It will instill a love of caring for their teeth and a desire to continue to visit the dentist.

 

 

Intrinsic Motivation and Children: How and Why

When you hear the sound of the road runner’s unmistakable “Meep! Meep!”, you’re sure that  Wile E Coyote is once again in hot pursuit of our fine feathered friend.  The road runner zooms by at lightning speed, while the coyote pulls everything out of his ACME arsenal, hoping to finally capture the elusive bird.  Now that’s a shining example of intrinsic motivation.  The coyote’s reward will be the unspoken sense of accomplishment derived from ensnaring the roadrunner.

It’s this type of motivation we want to instill in our children.  We want our kids to work towards something because they want to, not because they want praise from us.  Their reward won’t be anything material, but the satisfaction of being able to undertake a task on their own.

When the motivation comes from inside them, it’s more likely that they’ll keep at an activity, rather than if the motivation came from outside.  Learning will come more naturally if they enjoy what they do, and not because they want to please you.

How do you develop intrinsic motivation in your kids, then?

If you told your kid you’d give him another Furby toy if he passed his Math exam, sure he’d study hard and get an A, but you’ll have to keep giving him rewards to keep him motivated.  Instead, show him how challenging yet fun Math can be.  Give him bite-size problems to tackle, and he’ll involuntarily realize that being able to hurdle those problems will only push him to take on bigger challenges.

Give your child the chance to evaluate his own work.  Instead of saying, “Good job!”, you can ask him “What do YOU think? “  If he feels that he’s done well, this will drive him to keep it up, or even do better next time.

If you must praise your child for excellent work, you’re better off praising him for the effort he put into it, rather than for the actual achievement.  He deserves to be recognized for his determination even if he’s unable to actually deliver.

Enhancing intrinsic motivation in your kids will prove to be beneficial to him when it comes to learning and developing self-confidence- even as an adult.

“That’s all, folks!”  (Yes, I just said that in true Porky- Pig-Looney-Tunes- ending fashion).

Feed the Need: How to Give Your Child the Affection He Needs

There’s one glaring reason I listen to PSY’s Gangnam song and One Direction’s tracks:  I love my daughter.  Whatever she likes, I like more.  I find myself helplessly drawn to anything and everything she fancies.

But loving our kids isn’t just about listening to their music and watching their favorite TV shows.  It’s also about being demonstrative with our feelings for them.  Do you sometimes wonder why they act up?  It’s because they clamor for your attention and affection.  If you rub your pet dog’s hair, shouldn’t you do the same to your kid?  It’s one thing for them to know that we love them, but it’s an entirely different ballgame when we SHOW them that.

Showing your kid affection isn’t all that difficult.  There are a lot of ways to do that.

Time for tenderness.  In a day, there are numerous opportunities to sprinkle your kid with some tenderness.  I personally enjoy braiding my daughter’s hair while chatting with her.  That simple gesture of my fingers brushing through her hair sends off a million love signals.  Even just getting them dressed for school or tucking them into bed at night assures them of your steadfast love.

Make remembrances.  Even when you’re away, you can still show your kid the affection he needs.  You can make him a collage of your trip.  Or if it’s your kid who’s leaving, you can sneak in a note inside his bag.

The power of hugs.  Hug your kid in the best of times, and even in the worst of times.  No matter how busy you are, you can always give your kid a quick hug- even in the middle of doing the laundry.  The bigger challenge is in hugging her after you’ve just told her off about something she’s done.  That helps melt away the anger, and reconnects you with that tiny creature who you love so dearly.

When you show your kid you love him, you help build his self-esteem.  He grows up more equipped to take on any curveball life may throw at him.

So, kiss and hug away.  Because the best things in life are free.

Tips on Buying Footwear for Kids

Cinderella had her fate decided by a glass slipper.   Because the shoe fit, she got to marry the most sought-after prince during her time.  That type of happily ever after may never happen to any of us in this day and age, but we should still put a lot of thought into picking out the proper footwear- especially for our kids.

Buying shoes for kids- whether it’s dressy flats or functional baby rainboots- is not as easy as buying a carton of milk from the grocery store.  There are some important factors to consider when choosing footwear for children.

Remember the rule of thumb.  Make sure that there is a thumb’s width- roughly half an inch- between the tip of her big toe and the shoe.

Have your toddler stand up.  It’s best to have her standing while being measured.  Watch out for those toes.  Be sure she doesn’t curl them, or that’ll mess up the numbers.

Wear those socks.  When your kid tries out shoes, have her wear the socks which she’ll wear with the shoes.  That’ll help you get the proper fit.

Get your kid to walk in the shoe.  Pay careful attention to the back, making sure that it doesn’t slip up and down, as it could cause painful blisters.

Your kid’s safety and comfort are more important than saving money, so don’t think about buying shoes one or two sizes larger, just so she could wear it for a longer time.  Big shoes are difficult to walk in and can cause accidents.

Choosing kids’ shoes is no walk in the park, but with the tips above to guide you, you shouldn’t break a sweat.

Budget Fashion Tips for Your Baby

When Suri Cruise was born some years ago, a thousand angels in heaven sang praise and nearly twisted their halos in sheer delight.  Harps were singing merrily as this little bundle of cuteness and joy made her entrance into this world.  But it wasn’t just winged cherubs who were happy then.  Fashion designers from all over the world were equally ecstatic at the prospect of a newborn slave to fashion.  One look at Suri, and they knew she was going to be the epitome of baby fashion.  She was style personified- in diapers!

But for those of us who aren’t as filthy rich as Suri’s parents, we can still make our little girl look paparazzi-worthy without breaking the bank.  Here are a few tips on how to prettify your little girl when you’re on a budget.

Say no to one-piece.  You know those one piece footed outfits with zippers?  Steer clear of them.  Babies grow at an alarming rate, so you won’t be able to wear these for long.  You’re better off getting a two piece ensemble and then pairing it off with socks.

Accessorize accordingly.  Never underestimate the power of cute accessories.  Girly hats, or one of those adorable boutique baby headbands will step up your baby’s style a notch.  You’d be surprised at how a tiny bow here or there can instantly spruce up your little girl’s look.

Go classic.  Choose pieces with colors which aren’t difficult to mix and match.  Orange seems to work like a charm.  Patterned styles may give you a harder time when it comes to pairing them off with your existing stuff.

Second hand is handy.  For jackets or other pieces which your baby may not get to wear that frequently, you can always opt to find pre-loved items.  You’ll find these at consignment stores or even from other mom-friends.

No matter what age or income bracket, we all deserve to look our fashionable best.  It’s a birthright.  All it takes is a little creativity in turning your baby into a diapered diva.