Why Worrying is Worthless

I am definitely no historian but I can say with conviction that never in the history of humankind has anyone ever benefited from worry. Sure you know what worry is. It’s that emotion Lindsay Lohan didn’t feel a bit of when she posed for the January 2012 issue of Playboy.

We don’t gain anything from worry, yet it’s something we do all too often. We worry over little things and big things. Your worries range from thinking about your kid’s future, to getting that last square in Party Bingo, to fretting over the fact that you’ve missed 2 issues from your subscription to Single Moms Gone Wild- Biweekly Edition.

I, for one, am admittedly a helpless worrywart. I worry about every single thing. And when things are going ok, I worry that I have nothing to worry about. It’s a vicious cycle that just kills me.

Worry is paralyzing. When we obsess about what has yet to happen, we lose whatever opportunities for happiness the present has to offer. Instead of merrily brushing the mane of your daughter’s My Little Pony, your mind has floated away to your office boardroom. Worry simply zaps the life out of you.

My cousin advised me to remember my “circle of control”. The things which belong to that circle are the ones which I have control over. Anything outside of that is simply beyond me, and I’ll just have to learn to trust God with those. It’s up to us, then, to identify those which we can control, and the things we can’t.

A friend once said that “worry is an insult to God”. Right. When we worry, it’s akin to thinking that God is not in charge. Even if things don’t go as planned, we should know better to believe that in the grander scheme of things, it’s all for the best.

It’s only a few days until Christmas, and this would be the perfect time to be in the “no-worry” zone. Have a truly Merry Christmas, everyone!