Things to Consider When Planning a Birthday Party for Twins

Anyone who has twins knows that they can be absolutely adorable and a pleasure to have around, but you also know that certain occasions are a bit different, with birthdays being the most obvious challenges. Some twins love sharing their birthday with their sibling, while others will want their own separate party. Even if you have twins that are cool with sharing their party, that’s only a preliminary step as then you have to actually plan the event. With that said, here are a few things you might want to keep in mind in the process:

1. One Cake or Two?

Do your twins like to argue over things? Or, do they get along well when sharing? If sharing a cake is going to be a problem, or if your twins have not-so-identical taste preferences, then you might have no other choice but to purchase two medium cakes instead of one larger cake. It’s okay though, as the twins can still blow out their candles in unison. Of course, all cake prices vary, so it’s a good idea to compare prices when choosing between the single or separate cake approach.

2. Matching Outfits: Are They Really a Good Idea?

Every parent with twins owns at least a couple of cute matching outfits, and while you might be tempted to put them to use on the big day, it might not be a great idea if you have identical twins that are difficult to tell apart. After all, you don’t want guests confusing one twin for another. If you absolutely can’t resist dressing them up in the same clothes, then you might want to give each a name tag or unique hat/wristband to avoid mix-ups. Alternatively, you can design a themed costume party so that the twins will want to be different characters.

3. Present Opening: Taking Turns or Alternating?

Twins usually prefer to alternate opening gifts (e.g. – twin #1 opens a gift and then twin #2 opens a gift, and so on), but some parents prefer to give each twin their own gift opening session. Letting one twin open all their presents first can upset the other temporarily, but on the other hand, it gives both kids a chance to truly enjoy the unwrapping of all their gifts consecutively. Plus, enforcing this rule can be a good way to teach twins discipline and family rank.

Staying Within an Allocated Budget

Twins aren’t only “double the trouble” they’re also twice as expensive on birthdays. Setting an equal but definitive budget for each twin will help you avoid the “hey, that’s not fair” arguments that may result from getting one twin more or “better” gifts than the other. However, giving them both the exact same gifts isn’t quite ideal either, so just try to get two of each gift that you think they’re most likely to fight over. Likewise, designating more expensive gifts to both of the twins also helps (i.e. -writing “For [Twin 1’s name] and [Twin 2’s name]” on a present that contains a game console or basketball goal).

 

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