Top 3 Ways to Find Love

I still haven’t found what I’m looking for. Yes, I’m singing to an old U2 tune. I couldn’t help but have that song play over and over in my head as my daughter and I were fervently looking for Easter eggs at an Easter egg hunt we went to yesterday. This reminds me of another thing which men and women alike keep looking for (aside from money)…LOVE!
We search high and low, near or far, but oftentimes, our efforts turn out to be another exercise in futility. The last thing on our minds is to end up growing old alone. What use is a talent in playing the guitar if you have nobody to play for, right? Exactly what must we do to find love?
• Ask to be introduced. This is where your network of friends comes in handy. Sure, Facebook is convenient, but it’s more important to get out there for some face-to-face human contact. Sometimes, if you don’t take some action, it just will never happen. Your friends know you well enough to find you a suitable match, but don’t take it out on them if things don’t work out.
• Steer clear of friends who might bring you down. We attract from the universe what we put into it, so if we go out there with a negative attitude about finding love, we just might succeed at never finding it. If you keep spending your weekends with your group of single, man-hater girlfriends, chances are, you’ll end up like them.
• Stop looking. Hasn’t it happened many times, that you’ve been looking all over for your glasses, only to find it hanging around your neck? Sometimes, the one thing we keep searching long and hard for has just been sitting right under our nose the whole time.
Finding love…well, at least real and lasting type, is never easy. There will be hits and misses along the way, but that’s all part of the ride. We fall, we get bruised, we get back up. Just as it says in the famous poem Desiderata: “whether or not it is clear to us, the universe is unfolding as it should”…


About Pepper

I am a single working mom, trying to raise my kid the best way I know how. Join me as I navigate my way through the jungle that is Single Mom-hood, armed with rose-colored glasses and strength of spirit. As pepper adds spice to food, so does my daughter add spice to my life. She makes life no less than…PEPPERRIFIC!

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  1. Tama! I wish though that if there was someone out there for me, he’d get here already. LOL

  2. just visiting~

    yea! Don’t give up~
    Love hurts but sometimes it’s a good hurt and Love sings when it transcends the bad things
    sabi ng Incubus. XD

  3. KERECT! este. correct. ehehe but I had found love thru facebook kaso di nag last kasi nga LDR :( umabot naman ng 6months, kasi we are not meant siguro talaga:)

  4. Diaper Days says

    done adding your blog in my two blogs (
    ) and have followed you too..Hope you do the same. see yah!

  5. MommyLES says

    Finding love may be quite difficult. I have been through a failed marriage before, but glad that God answered my prayer to give me the person who will accept me (and my kids) for what i am. Just keep on praying and God will certainly answer it in His perfect time; seldom early but never too late.

  6. Tons of agree with ur post..hopefully will find lov asap..TT

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