I have to admit, I am that fool. Whenever I spend fun times with two of the most important people in my life, I can’t help but keep replaying every moment in my head. My brain hasn’t kept up with the times, though, so it still is in video cassette mode, rewinding, pausing and replaying those cherished moments. Those two people whom I love the most and would die for-without batting an eyelash- are my daughter and Significant Other.
The fates were smiling down on me this weekend, as ex-husband agreed, without force or grave threats, to not “borrow” my daughter. That didn’t sound quite right, did it? I think I just made my daughter a commodity there.
Anyway, I never thought that spending hours at the mall with a five-year old can be so much fun. She proved to be a worthy shopping companion, spewing out fashion tips along the way. It was the first time she joined me in the department store changing room. It’s utterly amazing and amusing to see how she thinks beyond her years. Eating out with her was an enjoyable experience too. I finally found someone who’d willingly laugh at my jokes- and totally get them!
As for Mr. SO, it was heartwarming to sing the Bangles’ Eternal Flame with him in the car while braving rush hour traffic. I was almost dumbfounded at how he knew the lyrics to the song, considering that he’s many years younger than me. Must be an old soul, this guy…
These two people have shown me love in its truest and purest form. I don’t know how else to describe how happy and inspired they make me feel. Whenever I feel my mood doing a nosedive, I can always replay our happy moments together… and I am once more alive.